Rob
Siciliano
Toronto, d. 11.December.2004,
cancer.
Rob Siciliano was a
Toronto based bike
courier, spoken word performer, poet, drummer, punk athlete
and hockey nut. He
performed in various punk bands until he discovered Henry
Rollins, and decided
to be a poet. He brought a punk rock ethic to poetry: do it
yourself; no time
to learn -- just start doing it; and do it full on. Rob did
numerous tours,
hawking Flammable, his self-recorded CD. He was always
preparing Flammable's follow-up,
but never managed to raise the funds with bike courier's
wages.
Rob never let up as
a drummer, and could be
found on the street right through the dead of winter, playing
a mangy old kit
with a beaten-up suitcase for a kick-drum. He took off for Sao
Paulo Brazil ,
where people would rather bang drums all night than drink, and
came back
writing verses in Portuguese. He ended up playing with the
Escola de Samba de
Toronto and features in the documentary We Are Samba.
The Samba School
played a benefit, with a
showing of the doc, to raise funds for Rob when he was in
hospital, and many
members were at his bedside and his memorial. Cancer came upon
Rob suddenly, in
the form of non-Hodgkins lymphoma, unnoticed at first among
the discomforts of
poverty like missed meals and holes in his shoes. He died in
his sleep on
December 11, 2004 at the age of 37. He is buried north of the
401, in an
unmarked plot in Beechwood Cemetary, like many poor artists
throughout history.
Small blessings
when life takes a wrong turn
Toronto Star, June 18, 2004
By Joe Fiorito
There was a swelling in his foot. At first he
thought it was a
strain, a deep bruise, whatever, who knows, it's probably
nothing. But the
swelling got worse and his foot got so painful that Rob
Siciliano thought he
ought to take some time off work.
A tough decision.
Rob is a bike courier, a poet, a musician. If
he doesn't work,
he doesn't get paid; none of his gigs provides him with sick
leave or any other
benefits in the usual sense of the term.
Although after you read this, you might be able
to make a case
for the benefits of membership in a samba band. Wait for it.
Rob owns two bikes, an Italian Gios and a
Raleigh gearless; two
bikes, because a courier needs a spare. After a couple of
weeks off work, his
foot was so badly swollen that he couldn't ride either one of
the bikes to the
hospital. He limped on to public transit. He hobbled over to
Mount Sinai. He
slumped into a chair in emergency.
There were the usual tests - ultrasound,
x-rays, blood work. Not
long after they got the results, the doctors asked Rob if he
had any close
relatives. He swallowed hard. That's a serious question in a
hospital. They
said the swelling was a clot. They told Rob he had
non-Hodgkin's lymphoma.
Oh, man, cancer.
Rob is 37 years old. His only living relative
is his older
brother, who lives in Paris. All he has are friends.
The best of his friends are the guys in the
band, We Are Samba,
a loose collection of some 30 drummers. They play Brazilian
music around town.
Rob played steadily for many years; now he is an irregular.
His instrument is
the surdu, "the deaf one," a huge drum, the heartbeat of a
samba
band.
When word got out that Rob was in the hospital,
his bandmates
thought it was frostbite. Rob wears ratty old torn sneakers
all winter long.
Why? He's a poet. He's broke. His head is in the clouds. His
eyes are on the
horizon. Poets don't care about sneakers.
I dropped by to see him the other day. That's
what you do if you
want to see Rob. You take your chances. You can't call ahead.
He doesn't have a
phone. If he's home, he's home.
He came to the door on crutches. He is thinner
than a
vegetarian. His hair is wispy under his baseball cap. There
are angry red marks
on the insides of his arms where the doctors have drawn blood,
and you can see
by the marks they have drawn a lot of it. He was wearing a
hospital-blue bootie
on his foot. The foot is still painful. But he didn't look bad
for a guy with
cancer.
How's he feeling?
"My appetite's okay. I get pretty tired. This
thing came
out of the blue. It's telling me to slow down. People in
Toronto are
work-work-work. It's time to take a break." He paused, as if
weighing
something in his mind.
"I've had close calls before. I've been hit by
cars maybe
half a dozen times. That's nothing, a courier hit by a car.
This is cancer. I'd
rather get hit by a car any day.
"I just had a CAT scan. I'll have a better idea
of how I'm
doing when I get the results. But I'm halfway through the
chemo. Four more
rounds to go. I'm going to beat this thing. I'll be back
leaner and meaner than
ever."
How's he getting by without a paycheque?
"I wasn't eligible for employment insurance, so
I'm on
Ontario Works. An irony - I'm okay for money now that I'm not
working, but when
I'm healthy I'm just scraping by. Figure that one out."
Not hard to figure.
Couriers don't make much in the summer; it's
worse for
courier-musician-poets. That's the price of a certain kind of
freedom. On the
other hand, membership in the band has provided him with a
literal benefit: We
Are Samba is holding a fundraiser for Rob. June 24, 7 p.m.,
Bloor Cinema;
tickets, $10.
A ticket gets you a rare chance to see a
documentary film about
the band. After the film, a song or two. If he's feeling well,
Rob will pound a
drum. He may read a poem. One of the members of the band is a
travel agent, so
there will be a raffle. You could win a trip to Rio.
The money they raise? Nobody wants to screw up
Rob's benefits by
giving him anything the government will claw back.
Last I heard, there were plans to bring his
brother over for a
visit. And, last I heard, the party will continue elsewhere
when the theatre is
cleared for the next movie.
Rob said, "I left the group, but the group
hasn't left me.
Samba is like soccer or hockey. It brings people together."